"Pansexual – Jab Prem Simāon ka Mohatāj Nahi"
(Na purush, na stri, na transgender... bas ek aakarshan jo rooh se hota hai.)
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मैंने पहली बार "Pansexual" शब्द सुना था बहुत साल पहले मुंबई के एक डिजिटल आर्ट इवेंट में।
वहाँ एक क्रिएटर मिली — नाम था Aashi.
बाल छोटे, आँखों में आज़ादी, और आवाज़ में वो साफगोई जो सिर्फ उन्हीं के पास होती है जो अपने सच के साथ जीते हैं।
मैंने पूछा —
“Pansexual ka matlab kya hota hai?”
वो मुस्कुराई और बोली:
> “Jo tumse pyaar kare, uski gender identity matter nahi karti.
Mujhe manushya se prem hota hai — na uske ling se, na uski labelling se.”
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Pansexual: Arth aur Samajh
Pan यानी सभी, और Sexual यानी यौन आकर्षण।
Pansexual vyakti kisi bhi gender identity se aakarshit ho sakte hain — male, female, transgender, non-binary ya gender-fluid.
ये sirf sex nahi, connection ka concept hai.
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Kaise hota hai Pansexuality ka Anubhav?
मैंने Aashi से पूछा,
> “Kya tumne kabhi kisi ladki se pyaar kiya?”
उसने jawab diya:
> “Ek baar ek ladki ke liye dil dhadka, ek baar ek transgender ke liye...
aur ab ek ladka meri kahani mein hai.
Sabhi apni jagah par asli the. Aur pyaar bhi.”
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Samaj ki Disha aur Dikkatein
Pansexuality abhi bhi ek less understood aur less accepted identity hai.
Log confuse karte hain ise bisexuality ke saath, par antar hai:
Bisexual: Attracted to both men & women.
Pansexual: Attracted to all genders, ya kahen beyond gender.
Zyada tar log maante hi nahi ki gender binary ke alawa bhi kuch hota hai.
> “Log hume confused bolte hain, par hamari clarity unse zyada hoti hai,”
Aashi ne ek baar kaha.
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Kya Purane Granthon Mein Iska Ullekh Hai?
Bharatiya darshanon mein prem ko roohani drishti se dekha gaya hai:
Bhakti yug ke sant, jaise Meerabai ne Shri Krishna ko patim mana, par unka prem ek deh se pare ek atma se tha.
Shiva-Shakti tattva, jahan Ardhanarishwar roop dikhata hai ki masculine aur feminine dono ek hi tattva hain.
Tantro mein bhi aise sambandhon ka ullekh hai jahan yoni-ling ke bhed se par prem ki baat hoti है।
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Mera Anubhav:
Jab main Aashi ke kareeb gaya, mujhe laga main kisi ek gender se nahi, ek prakash se mil raha hoon।
Ek baar usne mujhe kaha:
> “Tum purush ho ya patthar – farak nahi padta.
Tumhara dil sachcha hai – wahi kaafi hai.”
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Aaj ke yug mein Pansexuality ki Jagah
Instagram, Reddit aur YouTube jaise platforms par Pansexual Creators apna truth boldly rakh rahe hain।
Fir bhi India mein:
Families acceptance nahi dikhati.
Relationships ko “confusion” ka label milta hai.
Legal protection abhi bhi basic gender identities tak limited hai.
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Osho kya kehte the?
> “Sex ek prakritik urja hai – use dabao mat, use samjho.
Prem roop badal sakta hai, par prem ki asli pehchaan uski गहराई है, ना कि लिंग।”
Osho ke commune mein gender ke traditional definition se pare experimental spaces hote the।
Unka maanna tha —
> "Pyaar bina label ke hi saccha hota hai."
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Ant mein:
Pansexual hona vikriti nahi, vikas hai।
Ye darshata hai ki ek insaan ka dil kitna open ho sakta hai — jahan sirf sharir nahi, आत्मा पसंद आती है।
> “Tumhare dil ne kiski taraf haan kaha – wahi tumhara sach hai।”
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